It's a Matter of Perspective
Conflict is a matter of perspective. It’s neither good nor bad, unless our reactions make it so! Consider these two photos below. The first represents what could be a perfect day under water. The second photo is the same scene – just shot from a different perspective. It certainly doesn’t represent a perfect day – unless you’re the shark! What can we learn from these photos? In order to truly understand the dynamics of any conflict, it’s important to step inside as many different perspectives from our own as possible. When we can see things through a different lens, we learn what others see, feel, and experience. What we then do with this information is our choice. We can ignore the information and plow ahead at our own peril. We can absorb the information and meld it into our own. We can discard our previous notions and move ahead with this new information. Po...